I can't believe ads still appear on TV and in print pushing male enhancement products.

Are there guys out there who have really benefitted from products like these? From the pills and the pumps and the creams, etc.? I am assuming none of these products really work...that's why it's hard to figure out how the companies get away with blatantly false ad campaigns.

How do they get away with exploiting men and women's insecurities like this?

Current Mood: confused

Ok, so if looks are so damn unimportant, why is the plastic surgery business thriving?

If men and women could care less about the shape and size of their partners body parts, why then do the magazines fly off the shelf when someone hot is baring all inside? What's the appeal when the Sports illustrated swimsuit edition hits the shelves? Why is male nudity becoming so popular in films today? If it's all about intimacy and 'what's inside that counts,' why is the porn industry swimming in more profit than others, a billion dollar industry?

Let me ask you directly-honey, does it matter to you? do you care about the shape and look of your lover or partner's body? About the look of their most private parts?

Guys, if your woman wore a AA cup bra, would it matter to you? Gals, do you ever wish he had a little more to work with? A tad longer? Just a little thicker?

Tags: i love you just the way you are.
Current Mood: indescribable

Has anyone had sex between the ears?

Ok, that was a joke. But seriously, do you think your mind plays a big role in what turns you on? Or do you think it is purely animal instinct?

I've often wondered about this issue since I can find so many different things a guy says or does or parts of the body, etc., a turn-on and I wonder where it all comes from because someone else may not find the same things a turn-on at all.

Tags: now!, rip all my clothes off
Current Mood: naughty

Anyone have a good idea for an erotic photo? This would be (in keeping with my theme of my journal) an erotic nude of a guy. It doesn't necessarily have to be without subtlety, I mean, it can be something that suggests more than it shows. But I'd like it to be something I could hang on my wall, maybe not in a high traffic area of the house but something that would challenge notions we all seem to have, that we are somehow not sexual beings. I'd love to hear some of your suggestions.

Tags: to be or not to be
Current Mood: artistic

Is it easy for you to talk about the specifics of what you like and don't like when it comes to sex?

Can you talk comfortably about the appearance of your body and about your partner's body?

Can you communicate your needs and desires easily before you get to the bedroom? Can you communicate openly when you're in the midst of a heated lovemaking session in the bedroom?

Tags: gee, i mean...., uhm
Current Mood: ditzy

Care to share your secret weapon in the bedroom? That hot technique that is a cinch to drive your partner wild? Is it a certain spot you touch? A particular stroke you use? The flick or slow caress of your tongue? The gentle play or sensual touch of fingers, lips, certain body parts?

...would love to hear about what you respond to most and what makes the passion flow and overflow for your partner.

Current Mood: devious

How large is the largest penis you've experienced? How large is the largest one you've ever seen?

My boyfriend's is average size, somewhere between 6-7 inches. I am not complaining. Just curious....I know a lot of women fantasize about bigger guys. What's the largest one you've ever encountered and was the experience of it more pleasureable for you or problematic in some way?

i've seen photos of guys that are larger than 9 plus inches. Wooosh! That's a lot of man. How big do these buggers get?

Tags: it's a bird, it's a plane, it's a...
Current Mood: contemplative

Been intrigued by squirters lately. I've seen other ladies squirt on videos recently. It does look like a wonderfully intense experience. Anyone ever experience it? Just curious to know if it is as intense and mind blowing as it appears to be?

Some of the women on these videos spray for more than a few seconds. Not talking about a few squirts, like a guy might do when he cums...we are talking about an explosion of fluid that shoots across the room...I kid you not...for 15, 30 seconds, sometimes even longer.

Anyone know how to get their bodies to gush like this?

Tags: i'll have what she is having
Current Mood: curious

My LJ buddy, mais_biensur, responded to one of my posts with an interesting observation:

"Muahahahaaaa. . . I love it when I can tell a guy has a hard-on. Like when you can feel it through their pants or see it. It's turn-onning to see an erection under cloth, huh? I was once messing around with one of my best-looking boyfriends and he had his pants off and was wearing very thin boxers. He was quite well endowed and I could see his hard-on really clearly. . . oh man."

I agree totally with mais...and I wonder if other ladies get turned on in this way?

Current Mood: bouncy

My guy can look at my body while I'm taking a shower and start to get excited. Just seeing my body nude, my shape hidden behind the shower curtain, hearing the water splash on me, seeing me touch my boobs as I wash them, etc., is enough to puts him in the mood...simple as that.

My curves are enough. Can you believe it? Nothing more.

I can get into a similar vibe. For instance, I like watching him sleep. He might have his back facing me and i'll spoon with him, just snuggle up close. It's not only the touching that turns me on. It's the seeing: seeing his broad shoulders against the incoming moon light, his hairy legs one on top of the other, his naked hips half hidden by the blanket, half exposed.

Am I the only woman who gets turned on in this way...by the sensual appearance of the male form?

Tags: take me now
Current Mood: chipper